What will happen if its not there??? and the Insecurity follows.....the worst ever state of mind.....
This insecurity fills our life with negativity, we end up becoming bitter souls. It completely attacks your belief system, your own identity and gradually takes your charge....you become its slave!
When insecurity takes your charge, you become restless all the time, you look unhealthy, you keep investing valuable time of your life in manipulating petty things and you make your life miserable.
How to get over these insecurities in life,
- One thing we all must assure ourselves is, shaping our life is in our hand but our existence is beyond our control!! So, we all must remember that me, myself and because of me.....is just our ego, there is much more beyond this state of mind.....
- Faith....have faith in yourself and always tell yourself that yes, I am capable of doing this and I can do it!, have faith in your relationships, If this belongs to you then it will always remain with you, even if it may get drifted from you for a short period of time but in the end it will come back to you! and unfortunately if its not yours then how much ever you try and hold it, it will go away, just like sand, the more you try and hold it tight it will slip off because it was never meant to remain in your hand....., In the professional life, if you are capable of getting something and you focus on your goals and target properly instead of wasting time in manipulations you will definitely get what you want! just need to have faith in yourself!
- And Patience.......everything that is precious takes its own time to happen, we should keep our efforts and commitment towards our goals constant, We should also tell ourselves from time to time that Rome was not Build in a day! every beautiful creation or experience is a result of patience.
