Made for each other..........

Relationships are like thread, they can tie you together and help you to build a strong bond with people or if not handled correctly they suffocate you to death!!

With changing life-style the meaning of Relationship has changed to a great extent.  What people need is a trust, faith and to top it all space !!!

Why relationships break?
I personally feel, that they break because we do not want them to work!!
we live with the negativity all throughout our life, we are all the time busy playing blame game to escape from our weaknesses, we always pity ourselves, we always have suspicion about everything which is going to happen or rather we are overcautious about the result of our efforts and more importantly we break those relations which we know we can break !!  we prefer to disown things as per our own convenience because we do not want to make efforts to make them work!! If a child is not eating food and remain hungry for a day will the mother allow to remain her/him hungry? she will make all the efforts in the world to feed him !!

Relations break because there are less efforts to make them work......and those efforts should be unconditional, sincere and honest. 

How to make relationship work?

• Simple, just stop thinking negatively about anything around you, the more negative you think the more negativity you attract in your life.  If your relationship is breaking never ever think that it is going to break or treat the situation in that manner, in fact in such situation keep the things as normal as you can, and it does wonders!!
• Never indulge with people who pass negative vibes, always make friends with people who inspire you or motivate you in a right direction
• Self healing, is the best way to solve many issues in life, find ways which help you to keep your calm and help you to remain focused in life
• Spend sufficient time in introspecting, just try and evaluate your actions and what you could have done better, while doing this never let thoughts of self pity come to your mind, this exercise can be done just for 15 mins a day but it really helps in improving your inner-strength
• Always look at the positive side of every situation or person, this tremendously help people to maintain relations
• Be thankful to whatever you receive in life, that will help you to remain contented and happy
• And patience !!! listen to the other person, give time to people to make things work but this we find very difficult in the culture of 20/20 match & fast-food :)

It is very simple to come out and say that it is not working or it did not work We are very selfish as far as these things are concerned, we always make efforts for those things which gives us materialistic results,but we always ignore or take for granted things which do not give us materialistic benefits.

We often forget that all materialistic things will vanish one day and what will remain forever with us and go with us is the true unconditional love of our loved ones !!! We need to put all efforts to make all relations work in our life and if the efforts are genuine, sincere and honest there is nothing in the world which can stop your success!!!